if you ever come across someone who is extremely quiet and never warms up to anyone chances are they have social anxiety disorder and constantly harassing them about why they are so quiet and getting annoyed that they never come out of their shell, and saying ~i am shy too~ is not going to make a difference. you are NOT helping them by saying all of this shit. shut the fuck up, mind your own business, and don’t assume you know why someone acts a certain way.
I HATE people pointing out that I’m quiet. I’ve been this way for about 23 years now and you’re not giving me any new information. There is a reason why I’m like this. Also, my boyfriend is pretty outgoing and uninhibited and it’s so irritating when people compare us and ask how it is that we’re together. I don’t want a clone of myself and I don’t think that he’s particularly interested in dating one of himself either. We’ve been happy together for 3 1/2 years now, and it hasn’t been an obstacle.